Normal People by Sally Rooney is, without a doubt, one of the best books I’ve ever read to discuss intense relationships with such deep character study. It captures the raw complexities of young love and the ways relationships shape us. The slow yet realistic approach of the book is what made it an instant fan-favourite and later had its own show as well. So if you’re a fan of works of Sally Rooney as such , then I believe you’ll also love these books/shows :
1. Lady Bird (2017) –
Directed by Greta Girwig, Lady Bird remains to be one of my all-time favourite movie. For someone who might have watched the movie, this could seem a bit sadโbut truth be told, I’m a sucker for movies with that kind of sad, slow-burn plot.
Lady Bird is a coming-of-age drama directed by Greta Gerwig, following the journey of Christine “Lady Bird” McPherson (played by Saoirse Ronan), a high school senior with a rebellious spirit and big dreams. Set in Sacramento in 2002, the film explores Lady Bird’s complex relationship with her strong-willed mother, as well as her desires to escape her hometown and attend college away from it. As she navigates friendships, first loves, and family tensions, she faces the struggles of self-identity, financial hardship, and adolescent insecurities.

I personally felt that Lady Bird and Marianne had similar ideologies about a lot of matters. Apart from the romantic aspect of their storyline, both of them had this intense desire for independence and escape and shared identical complex relationships with their families. Though we mostly get to see Lady Bird’s high school life with a very short glimpse of her in college, I can TOTALLY see Lady Bird and Marianne being best friends in some universe.
Honestly, would love to do a deep-dive on complex mother-daughter relationships on my blog someday.
2. Before Sunrise Trilogy (1995-2013) –
The Before Sunrise trilogy consists of three films โ Before Sunrise (1995), Before Sunset (2004), and Before Midnight (2013) follows the evolving relationship between Jesse and Celine as they meet by chance on a train and develop a deep connection over the course of nearly two decades. Each film takes place in a single day, several years apart, capturing their raw and philosophical conversations as they navigate love, longing, and the passage of time. Known for its exploration of intimacy, the trilogy offers an honest look at the complexities of modern relationships at different life stages.

Literally love this trilogy because of its raw portrayal of emotions and the fact that it has been shot over a span of 18 years to retain the realistic feel. Jesse and Celine resemble Connell and Marianne who are bound by a connection that keeps drawing them back to one another even after decades. The candid conversations between Jesse and Celine captures the complexities of love over the passage of time and the dying feeling of missed opportunities as life changes its course. It’ll DEFINITELY make you cry if you’re a sucker for sad movies.
3. Perks Of Being A Wallflower –
Written by Stephen Chbosky , The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a coming-of-age novel that beautifully captures the complexities of adolescence and self-discovery. The novel was later adapted into a critically acclaimed film, starring the amazing Emma Watson and Logan Lerman, and remains to be one of the best book-adaptions till date.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower is about Charlie, a shy high school freshman who struggles with the recent loss of his best friend as a result of which, feels like an outsider. As he writes letters to an anonymous friend, we see him navigate the ups and downs of teenage life. The movie portrays friendships, who help him come out of his shell and experience life more fully and how he confronts his past traumas and learns to embrace his true self. The story explores themes of identity, belonging, and the bittersweet nature of growing up.

I’d recommend this movie because of the similarities between Connell and Charlie . The book captures the essence of feeling lost in your teens and dealing with past traumas, so so well. Both storylines tackle themes of mental health like anxiety, depression and identity issues in very identical ways . Though I’d definitely say that Perks of being a wallflower, resonates to more of a comparatively fun theme – more of a lets-watch-it-on-a-sleepover vibe – than Normal People , so this might be a good pick for you if you’re a contemporary romcom lover.
4. Fleabag (2016) –
Fleabag is a dark comedy-drama which features a young woman in her 20s facing the complexities of life. As she processes the recent death of her best friend, the strained relationship with her family, and her chaotic love life, Fleabag’s journey is both hilarious and heart-wrenching. The series explores themes of loneliness, loss, and the search for connection, all while showcasing Fleabag’s struggle to cope with her emotions. Fleabag offers a raw and honest portrayal of modern womanhood, earning critical acclaim and a devoted fan base.

I CANNOT emphasize on the amount of Fleabag scenes/edits that have popped up in my feed over the past few years. To be very honest, I haven’t completed the show myself but I recommend this quite often because of the representation style and the slow yet humor filled approach of the series. Filled with intense emotions, emotional turmoil, yearning and dark-humour, Fleabag will definitely remind you of Normal People and it’s beautifully narrated adult relationships and personal chaos.
5. Cleopatra And Frankenstein –
Cleopatra and Frankenstein by Coco Mellors would be one of my no.1 book recommendations if you loved Normal People.
You can read my detail review of the book here. (it’s reall good I promise!! )

Amazingly narrated, I can guarantee that you will LOVE this book if you love Rooney’s works. It follows the same slow narration as Normal People and discusses many mental health topics like depression, eating disorder, self harm, etc. Cleo and Frank’s relationship in this book is something I can see Connell and Marianne growing up to have later in their life. Which I do agree is sad, but well that’s reality and isn’t that what we love about Normal People in the first place? The rawness of it all.
And that’s all for my recommendations. Honestly thought I had a few more movies and books I could write about here but yeah its definitely difficult to catch the vibe and essence of Normal People.
I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVVEE all the recommendations I mentioned here. Not to pick favourites, but you HAVE TO watch Lady Bird and Before Sunrise Trilogy !!
Do let me know if you know any other books/shows that resonate with Normal People, in the comments. Or just let me know whatever you’ve been enjoying recently in general (I’ve been binge-watching Office. And yes I have been miserable for a while now and it keeps me sane)
Until next time, bubye! :))












